Kim Cooper, Author at TheNCMarriage.com

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Companionship: A Two Way Street

News Flash and Editorial Note: Steve has recently been diagnosed with the worst case of sleep apnea the doctors have ever seen. For those who may not know what sleep apnea is, it means that Steve has been majorly sleep…

Poem for the Codependent Woman

A woman sits looking out her window, At the warm sun gently caressing the flowers outside. It is a perfect day but none of this touches her, The beauty only mocking the terrible pain she feels inside.

Big Lies

Author’s Note: I remember struggling for words when—many years ago—I decided, that instead of continuing to get angry about the lies my husband Steve had been telling me, it would be better if I could help him see why being…

Fighting Corruption Where it Begins

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Men and Women Must Organise to Defend Their Families

Just as you wouldn’t invest in an organisation that had no idea what it produced, with no defined roles, standards, policies or procedures—why risk your family's collective stability and security on vague, conflicting and sometimes horrifying notions of what constitutes good family governance?

Will He Ever Really Feel for Me?

When I first began looking for help for our marriage, most were quick to judge our problems as either my or Steve's fault. Although I had been advised that Steve had the symptoms of

Woman Dealing With Verbal Abuse Over The Phone

Verbal Abuse Hurts

Ending the put downs and verbal abuse in my marriage was one of the toughest challenges I have ever faced. If this is a problem you are facing in your marriage, check out the article . . .

Healthy Narcissism?

Frankly I am tired of people saying ‘a little bit of narcissism is healthy’ when the truth is healthy and unhealthy narcissism are two completely different outlooks on life.

Find Your Dream Lover

This may shock you (coming from me) but today I am going to help you find your dream lover. They are just waiting to have the perfect life long affair with you - beginning today in real life! But first I want to ask you a question, and share a little story ...

After the Fight

You and your partner have had a big fight. Nasty things have been said, plans have been spoiled and emotionally both of you are in pain and turmoil. You feel desperate to see your partner again and hear them apologize for all the nasty things they have said and done.