Be Careful What You Believe
The long article published below will hopefully soon be released as a new book. It is an extended update of a previous article on this website titled Become the Driver of Your Life. At present this draft is free and…
Don’t Look For a Hero
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Become ‘the Driver’ of Your Life
Staying Sane in a Narcissistic and Codependent World Who Should We Trust?
The Road to Disappointment
Dealing with life when it becomes uncertain—a few useful tips I have learned to deal with life—when choices become irrationally terrifying...
Potential New Medical Insight into NPD?
Could the Symptoms of Narcissistic Personality Disorder be Caused by Other Medical Problems? Steve's Latest Diagnosis While personality disorders are often linked to PTSD, I am beginning to suspect there could be a more basic underlying cause. Author's note: This…
Companionship: A Two Way Street
News Flash and Editorial Note: Steve has recently been diagnosed with the worst case of sleep apnea the doctors have ever seen. For those who may not know what sleep apnea is, it means that Steve has been majorly sleep…
Poem for the Codependent Woman
A woman sits looking out her window,
At the warm sun gently caressing the flowers outside.
It is a perfect day but none of this touches her,
The beauty only mocking the terrible pain she feels inside.
Big Lies
Author’s Note: I remember struggling for words when—many years ago—I decided, that instead of continuing to get angry about the lies my husband Steve had been telling me, it would be better if I could help him see why being…
Men and Women Must Organise to Defend Their Families
Just as you wouldn’t invest in an organisation that had no idea what it produced, with no defined roles, standards, policies or procedures—why risk your family's collective stability and security on vague, conflicting and sometimes horrifying notions of what constitutes good family governance?